Open Letter to Parents of Newly-Diagnosed Autistic Kids

Open Letter to Parents of Newly-Diagnosed Autistic Kids

Putting this first: For an explanation on why I (and many autistic people) use Identity First Language (‘autistic person’) rather than Person First Language (‘person with autism’), see this great article.

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I’ve been an ‘autism parent’ for a lot of years now; I love when friends send new autism parents my way for advice seeing as I have all the answers.

BAHAHAHAHAHA!!

😂😂😂😂!!!

Okay, all right..

When we started out at this parenting thing we had all the answers, as you do. Then we had our autistic child first and suddenly were in the deep end of the Continue reading

This Can Only Go Well: Christianity and Abortion Edition (please don’t yell at me)

This Can Only Go Well: Christianity and Abortion Edition (please don’t yell at me)

I say this all with grace and love and a deep appreciation that we are all people, every one of us worthwhile and deserving of the same rights, with the same responsibility to be decent, respectable people to each other.

In case that’s not clear enough, it is code for, ‘I expect you to act like an adult’.

My background is evangelical Christian; I know how much we Christians like stories. Parables. Anecdotes and narratives to give us a compass of what Continue reading

What Needs To Be Said

What Needs To Be Said

So funny story, true story: I applied for the job as my church’s secretary. Stop laughing, that’s not supposed to be the funny part. Okay, it kind of is.

It has been a bit tricky to pay our bills lately so the position opening seemed like manna from heaven, so to speak. And I perfectly qualify in every way to be the church office assistant EXCEPT Continue reading